It would be very harsh to judge a bride if she is getting married while pregnant. There are those who say that she is naïve or ignorant, but that may not be the case. Sometimes the bride doesn’t know she is pregnant before they start planning for the wedding. Others get married while pregnant because their beliefs require them to get married before they give birth. Also, there are some traditions beliefs whereby a woman who has given birth before getting married cannot get married after that.
To counter all these factors, the bride can decide to get married while pregnant. The big concern is about her safety. When you have the planner start planning for the wedding, the bride’s safety should be the priority. From the wedding ceremony to honeymoon, the organizers should consider planning for events that would be easy and comfortable for her to participate in. Wild wedding exits like horse riding should be out of the equation. You should keep the wedding somehow simple. If you find out that you are pregnant, and you want to get married, here are some of the factors to consider.
Have the right wedding dress and shoes. There is a need to shop for the right dress for your wedding. When you pay a visit to the bridal salon, disclose your status to the attendant, so that she can be able to offer you the best advice on the type of dress you should wear. When you choose the shoes, make sure you go for flat shoes and avoid high heeled shoes. Flat shoes are comfortable, and they make you stable, so little accidents like falling can be avoided.
Consult your doctor. The doctor can tell if you are safe to go down the aisle or not. He can say if you will give birth before the wedding or if you will experience labor pains on your wedding day. It is that important because it is very embarrassing to experience labor pains on the wedding day. The doctor should advise you on a diet you need to take, so you don’t eat something that may make you uncomfortable.
Check your mood. As you go down the aisle, you want to be in a good mood, but you sometimes find that when pregnant, the mood may be different. There is also an issue on the attitude you have towards those concerned about you. A pregnant bride should be positive and should appreciate the effort made by her fiancée, family, and friends to make the wedding a success.
It is safe to get married while pregnant, only if you follow the appropriate safety precautions. Don’t be scared to go for that special moment because you are expecting. Your wedding will still be magnificent, even if you are pregnant.
Published on: Friday, 23 November 2018 Modified on: Monday, 10 June 2019